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		<title>In defense of KPOP: Is KPOP Jologs?</title>
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Recently, there have been a lot of hate towards the KPOP fandom in the Philippines and KPOP itself. There are a couple of Facebook fan pages that are dedicated solely in hating KPOP. While searching for the term &#8220;KPOP Jologs&#8221; on Google, I found out that there&#8217;s a discussion thread in MYX&#8217;s Facebook fan page [...]]]></description>
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<p>Recently, there have been a lot of hate towards the KPOP fandom in the Philippines and KPOP itself. There are a couple of Facebook <a title="Bakit ang daming nababaliw sa KOREAN na KANTA?Naiintindihan niyo ba?" href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Bakit-ang-daming-nababaliw-sa-KOREAN-na-KANTANaiintindihan-niyo-ba/370614867134" target="_blank">fan pages</a> that are dedicated solely in hating KPOP. While searching for the term &#8220;<a href="http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&amp;source=hp&amp;q=kpop%20jologs&amp;aq=f&amp;oq=&amp;aqi=" target="_blank">KPOP Jologs</a>&#8221; on Google, I found out that there&#8217;s a discussion thread in MYX&#8217;s Facebook fan page entitled &#8220;<a title="Visit the discussion thread here" href="http://www.facebook.com/topic.php?uid=145388032112&amp;topic=14564" target="_blank">KPOP IS JUST FOR JOLOGS JOLOGS!!!!</a>&#8221; (Ironically, the group was created by <a title="What is Westlife?" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Westlife" target="_blank">Westlife</a> fans <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  ) Honestly, I wasn&#8217;t THAT surprised by this turn of events&#8230; I have somehow anticipated that this would happen sooner or later given the raging popularity of KPOP in the Philippines. Just last year, I <a title="What does it mean to be Jologs? (Or my violent reaction to SNSD’s popularity in the Philippines) " href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/10/27/what-does-it-mean-to-be-jologs-or-my-violent-reaction-to-snsds-popularity-in-the-philippines/" target="_blank">posted an article</a> expressing my disagreement to the soon-to-be KPOP craze with the anticipation that KPOP will soon be &#8220;jologs&#8221;. Nonetheless, I do feel the need to defend the Fandom by debunking the common attacks against KPOP and its fans.</p>
<div id="attachment_710" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 232px"><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/cookiesj.png"><img class="size-medium wp-image-710" title="cookiesj" src="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/cookiesj-222x300.png" alt="Why the hate?" width="222" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Why the hate?</p></div>
<p>I felt the need to post this blog because &#8220;arguing&#8221; on the MYX discussion board is pointless. The entire discussion is a huge flamebait wherein each reply contain at least 1 <a title="is an argument which links the validity of a premise to a characteristic or belief of the person advocating the premise." href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ad_hominem" target="_self">Ad Hominem</a> and 2 curses. I have posted a very long, three-paragraph rational argument and my reply was followed with a post that reads &#8220;Putangina mo&#8221;. So yeah, I wish your eyes good luck if you wish to read that discussion board.</p>
<p>So okay, let&#8217;s start discussing the most common &#8220;attacks&#8221; to the KPOP fandom and KPOP. I will continually update this post when &#8220;new&#8221; attacks surface.  <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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<h1><span style="text-decoration: underline;">1. KPOP is JOLOGS</span></h1>
<p><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/jologs.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-714" title="jologs" src="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/jologs-210x300.jpg" alt="jologs" width="210" height="300" /></a>Before we can sanely argue if &#8220;something&#8221; is &#8220;jologs&#8221;, we must first define what jologs is. In my <a title="What does it mean to be Jologs? (Or my violent reaction to SNSD’s popularity in the Philippines)" href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/10/27/what-does-it-mean-to-be-jologs-or-my-violent-reaction-to-snsds-popularity-in-the-philippines/" target="_blank">previous post</a> wherein I discussed SNSD&#8217;s popularity, I defined jologs as:</p>
<blockquote><p>I don’t really know how to define Jologs but I will try to give an example on how something can achieve the Jologs status. Just as a certain footwear became the “in” thing in the Philippines. This particular footwear is really expensive considering its just a pair of rubber stuff worn on one of the smelliest parts of the human body. But since the Philippines has that penchant for creativity, anything is plagiarized just as fast as the speed of light, the said footwear now cost only 50 pesos and is readily available at your local tiangge. Now everyone from your driver, to your labandera’s son owns the skillfully crafted identical footwear you are wearing. The footwear is now “mainstream” in the sense that the “representative population” of the Philippines (AKA “the masses”) can now own and wear the footwear. Congratulations, your footwear is now jologs.</p></blockquote>
<p>In summary, something is jologs when the &#8220;representative population&#8221; of the Philippines (AKA &#8220;the masses&#8221;) have direct access to it. In terms of music (or entertainment), a certain music genre is jologs when &#8220;the masses&#8221; have direct access to it by means of local radio and TV. The jologs factor of the music is being amplified when said music is being played in places where &#8220;the masses&#8221; thrive like the &#8220;Divisoria&#8221; or some low-end malls. In one word, a music genre (or anything for that matter) is jologs when it is already &#8220;mainstream&#8221;.</p>
<p><strong>Given the criteria above, I must sadly acknowledge that KPOP is now jologs</strong>. Here are the telltale signs:</p>
<ul>
<li>Remember Wondergirls&#8217; Nobody? <a title="Watch it here" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d7elkmsPaJs" target="_blank">Even Jollibee and KFC&#8217;s Chucky wasn&#8217;t immune to it</a>.</li>
<li>SHINee&#8217;s visit for the Korea-Philippines Friendship day</li>
<li>4Minute&#8217;s guess appearance at Wowowee (I love Hyuna!)</li>
<li>F.T Island&#8217;s concert at PICC</li>
<li>2PM&#8217;s Nichkhun Danbi shoot at Payatas (Ala Manny Villar)</li>
<li>UKISS&#8217; guess appearance at Party Pilipinas</li>
<li>Upcoming Super Junior concert at Araneta</li>
</ul>
<p>If that wasn&#8217;t enough, local KPOP-wannabee groups such as <a title="POP Girls - Crazy Crazy MV" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8SqdgTmMj4A" target="_blank">POP GIRLS</a> and <a title="XLR8 - You're so HOT MV" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JK39E2bleTk" target="_self">XLR8</a> are polluting the local KPOP scene. (Side comment: I think XLR8 is a huge improvement from POP GIRLS. The entire act is so KPOP-ish. They even release 30 second trailers on Youtube lol. <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' />  )</p>
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<p>Here&#8217;s the take-away: Most western groups are jologs (yes, that includes Westlife). Both (them and KPOP) have already achieved critical mass to be considered jologs. However, the &#8220;English&#8221; group&#8217;s  material is much more accessible to the pinoy &#8220;masses&#8221;, thus  achieving more jologs points. Case in point, I say that there is a  certain level of sophistication that is required to be a <strong>TRUE</strong> KPOP  fan&#8230; the barrier-to-entry to KPOP fandom is way higher compared to  western music. Remember that our country is more &#8220;western&#8221; (in terms of music) than Asian and most Filipinos can easily understand English by default&#8230; so there is a tendency for them (the masses) to listen to &#8220;English&#8221; songs more than KPOP. So the question is, why the sudden influx of KPOP fandom &#8220;membership&#8221;? I say it&#8217;s just a trend. Like the Macarena trend, we <strong>true</strong> KPOP fans hope that it will soon fade out of the limelight.</p>
<p>As a side note, please do not confuse the poser KPOP fan &#8212; one who merely follow the trend, with the true KPOP fans. They are not of the same caliber.</p>
<h1>2. KPOP Fans do not understand the lyrics</h1>
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<p>This has to be the most pathetic assault on KPOP. For the sake of argument, I must say that I can&#8217;t really follow the English lyrics of Paramore (Or songs with growling in it). Now, people might say &#8220;Well, you just suck at understanding English lyrics&#8221;&#8230; Those people are usually the ones who do a mockery of the song by singing it with a different lyric with the defense of mishearing the song. (Side comment: I have a colleague who went to the Paramore concert and was singing &#8220;That&#8217;s what you get&#8221; and I had to correct his lyrics). Although this argument does not justify the inability of Filipinos to understand Korean, it illustrates that people can enjoy music without really understanding the lyrics.</p>
<p>Setting that point aside, let me just say that we &#8220;true&#8221; KPOP fans are willing to go the extra mile to understand the idols (Note: Idol is another word for boy band or girl group). Each popular KPOP group has their own international fan cafe (read: Fansite) where fans can download &#8220;subbed&#8221; (with subtitles) music videos (MV). To have a more deeper understanding (or connection, if you will) of the group, fans would usually download variety shows, commercials, BTS (behind-the-scene) clips, award show clips, documentaries and news clips where their idols are in. Not only that, true fans will usually take the effort to learn the basics of the Korean culture because it is impossible to fully grasp the context of the songs without such understanding of the Korean society (Like what does &#8220;Oppa&#8221; mean? Why is there a need to suffix names with &#8220;Ssi&#8221;, etc). Also, most true fans that I know can read Hangul (I said read, not understand. <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  )&#8230; If you really put an effort into learning it, you can read any KPOP lyrics in just 6 hours! (<a title="Korean Hangul #1- Alphabet " href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=djB05a4ntQ4" target="_blank">Watch this series of tutorials to learn Hangul now!</a>)</p>
<p>Remember what I was saying about KPOP having a high &#8220;barrier-to-entry&#8221;, well this is it. For us, this is what makes the fandom more meaningful. Having a deep understanding of a foreign culture that we admire and at the same time, having a deeper connection with our favorite groups. Since the Philippines is intrinsically western (we are more American than Asian), I doubt that there&#8217;s a need to &#8220;go the extra mile&#8221; to understand the English bands and their culture.</p>
<h1>3. Korean group members are not talented</h1>
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<p>This really really makes me  mad. I have a colleague (yep, you guessed it right, she&#8217;s a she) who  will always insists that Girl&#8217;s Generation (SNSD) is not talented in  terms of singing and dancing. I mean., <strong>W.T.F.</strong>, she even compared  SNSD to Sexbomb! Blasphemy!!! Okay okay, enough of the obsessive fan boy  act.</p>
<p>According to her, SNSD members are not talented singers  because they are producing &#8220;synthesized&#8221; music (or music that is heavy  on the usage of Synthesizers). Okay, she might have forgotten that SNSD  is a POP GROUP <strong>performing</strong> a <a title="Bubblegum Pop" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bubblegum_pop" target="_blank">Bubblegum  pop song</a>; I may not be an expert on music but Bubblegum pop rely  heavily on Synthesizers. I mean, I don&#8217;t even understand how the use of  synthesizers undermines the singer&#8217;s vocal capabilities. Another issue  that she pointed out is that SNSD is always lip syncing during  performances&#8230; My response to that is that &#8211; SNSD performances are not  concentrated on just &#8220;singing&#8221;, they also do a lot of powerful dances  with cute poses together with the performance. Singing is just a part of  the <strong>performance</strong>. If the <strong>performance</strong> is just singing, then  they will always sing live. Local artists are more pathetic, the  number are just singing and yet they are lip syncing.</p>
<p>Another  colleague of mine has a girlfriend with innate hate towards SNSD. She  criticizes SNSD&#8217;s dance routine; according to her, the dance moves are  just cutesy and not even hard (she even showed us how &#8220;easy&#8221; it is  for her to dance Gee; I will just leave the imagination to you on how it  turned out). Adding insult to injury, she said that the &#8220;Pussycat  Dolls&#8221; is a lot better than SNSD when it comes to dancing <em>just  because their dance routine involves breaking your bones in 17 different  places</em> (Italicize text is mine).</p>
<p>This is what I want these people to understand. SNSD (and other  KPOP idol groups for that matter) is a <strong>POP GROUP</strong>. Their total  entertainment value does not rely solely on just dancing or singing; it&#8217;s an entire package. They are, what I call, <strong>entertainers</strong>. Allow me to  explain.</p>
<p>In Korea, there are big entertainment companies (like  conglomerates) that control the Korean media. These entertainment  companies hold &#8220;audition&#8221; all over the country to recruit (more like  hoard) really young talents (like 9 years old). After they recruit talents, they will put them on a crazy &#8220;Training Academy&#8221; in where they  will be trained in areas of singing, dancing, modeling, acting, rapping,  foreign languages, asian poses, looking at the camera (projection), fashion, etc  (all of the needed skills to be successful in the entertainment  industry). The average training period is 6 years&#8230; during this time,  they do not have any exposure to the public (If you&#8217;ve watched  Batang-X, it is somewhat like this <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  ). Now, when the company decides  &#8220;Okay, we need a new group&#8221;, they will select from this pool of  well-trained entertainers to create the group and they will let them  sign unfair contracts that span 10 years (and then perform plastic surgery! Kidding! <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  ).</p>
<p>My point is, how dare  you compare these well-trained entertainers to a group of On-the-Job  trainee entertainers. No, sorry, that&#8217;s not my point. My point is, these  people are &#8220;commercially&#8221; created in &#8220;talent factories&#8221; to entertain.  They are performers that are &#8220;created&#8221; to suit the public taste. They do  not write their own song, they don&#8217;t even choreograph their own dance.  The company will decide on what &#8220;concept&#8221; (song, dance, fashion, etc)  suits the current entertainment climate and they will hire armies of  stylists, composers, choreographers to &#8220;train&#8221; the group. But that  doesn&#8217;t mean they are not talented. Even before they &#8220;start&#8221; training,  they are already talented. Remember the gruesome audition process? They  are being picked against thousands of candidates. And right after that,  they are even trained in all aspects of the entertainment business. <strong>How  can you say they are not talented?</strong></p>
<p>One argument that I  always receive is this: &#8220;Local artists don&#8217;t even need years of  training and yet they are performing okay&#8221;. Seriously? I was a genius at birth but I still had to attend school and college to get a job.  So don&#8217;t throw me that argument, it&#8217;s just stupid. And as a side effect  of this &#8220;untrained&#8221; entertainers, just look at their performance on  noon-time shows&#8230; its mediocrity at its best. They don&#8217;t know where the  camera is, they don&#8217;t have any &#8220;emotions&#8221;, and they have that smile on  their face that says &#8220;I don&#8217;t know what I&#8217;m doing but since I look good,  I&#8217;ll just copy the backup dancers&#8221;. Your entertainers are not just &#8220;<strong>untalented&#8221; (incapable)</strong>,  they are also <strong>unskilled</strong>. Maybe it is best to put them in some <strong>&#8220;training  academy&#8221;</strong>. <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<h1>4. KPOP fans are not nationalistic</h1>
<p><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Filipino_Nationalism.gif"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-792" title="Filipino_Nationalism" src="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Filipino_Nationalism.gif" alt="Filipino_Nationalism" width="182" height="241" /></a>Growing up, I was not really fond of music. Okay, I take that back, let me rephrase. Growing up, I was not really fond of <strong>contemporary music</strong>. I grew up listening to my Dad&#8217;s antique song collection that includes John Denver, Matt Monro and Frank Sinatra. For me, contemporary music (both foreign and local) is just too &#8220;noisy&#8221;. Somehow, I felt that the &#8220;perfection&#8221; found on my Dad&#8217;s antique song collection is not found on said contemporary music. That all changed when I first heard the local band called <a title="Eraserheads" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eraserheads" target="_blank"><strong>Eraserheads</strong></a> from our neighbor&#8217;s loud boom box. The music of Eraserheads is what we call <strong><a title="OPM" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Original_Pilipino_Music#OPM_.28Original_Pilipino_Music.29" target="_blank">OPM</a> </strong>(or Original Pilipino Music) and up to this day, their albums are still on my MP3 player (together with <a title="Rivermaya" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rivermaya" target="_blank">Rivermaya</a>&#8217;s and <a title="Parokya ni Edgar" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parokya_ni_edgar" target="_blank">Parokya ni Edgar</a>&#8217;s albums). Sadly, as one of my dear readers have pointed out, the &#8220;O&#8221; in &#8220;OPM&#8221; is now long gone; It&#8217;s no longer &#8220;original&#8221;. It&#8217;s the same crappy, mediocre, cheap rip-off of whatever music is perceived &#8220;cool&#8221; by the masses (usually foreign songs).</p>
<p>My point? We, KPOP fans, will not &#8220;support&#8221; the local music industry <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>just because</strong></span> &#8220;we need to support our own&#8221;. Sorry, it just doesn&#8217;t work that way. I would gladly buy a repackaged E-heads album but I will NEVER EVER EVERY buy POP GIRLS&#8217; album or Sexbomb&#8217;s album or Sarah Geronimo&#8217;s album (Sorry SG fans, you don&#8217;t have the right to label &#8220;Right Here Waiting&#8221; as OPM). If local artists wants our support, they should first rid themselves with the mediocrity that is so common in the local music scene today.</p>
<p>One of the reasons why I am addicted to KPOP is because I can see &#8220;perfection&#8221; on everything they do. From the superior technicality of their music videos to the perfect execution of their dance routines, you can never see a hint of mediocrity on their performances. I was never able to detect the prevalent &#8220;Puwede na yan&#8221; (It will do) mentality on their products. It&#8217;s just perfection all around. Let me emphasize:</p>
<ul>
<li>In terms of technicality: They have HD videos (720p at least) while we  are still stuck with Standard Definition. The camera angles (close-ups)  are just perfect, I can&#8217;t say the same to the camera angles on our  noon-time show (I often end up puking out of dizziness).</li>
<li>In terms of dance routines: Synchronized. Just watch our local talents on noon time show to get your daily dose of mediocrity. (and hey, wardrobe malfunction anyone?)</li>
<li>In terms of &#8220;concept&#8221;: In Korea, they have this concept of &#8220;debut&#8221;, &#8220;hiatus&#8221; and &#8220;comeback&#8221;. When a certain KPOP idol group &#8220;debut&#8221; for the first time, they will promote their album using a certain &#8220;concept&#8221; (Sexy concept, cute concept, dark concept, etc). The concept covers fashion (Wardrobe), hairstyles and behavior (Yes! Each concept have a certain &#8220;feel&#8221; that the members of the group needs to emit) among others. After promoting their albums on different shows for a couple of months, the group will then go into &#8220;hiatus&#8221; which will officially end their &#8220;group activities&#8221; and promotions. Using the &#8220;hiatus&#8221; time, the company and the group will then prepare the new &#8220;concept&#8221; and album for their &#8220;comeback&#8221;. Usually, the new &#8220;concept&#8221; is totally different from the previous concept and you will feel that its an entirely different group! My point? KPOP groups always deliver fresh material. Unlike our local talents who are just stuck on whatever image they started with (Uh sorry, I shall correct myself. When local artist reach the lowest point of their careers, they usually post nude/sexy on Men&#8217;s Magazine. Maybe that&#8217;s their new &#8220;concept&#8221; huh? <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  )</li>
</ul>
<p>I think I have the answer why the local music industry is suffering from mediocrity and its bad effects: Lack of competition and complacency. Big stars are complacent because there is no competition and somehow, new artists never seems to threaten the big stars. When was the last time Regine Velasquez or Christian Bautista came up with a new concept? It&#8217;s the same stuff and I&#8217;m sick and tired of it. Complacency kills competition and lack of competition kills innovation. Did you know that in just 2009, there are a total of <a title="How many girl groups debuted in 2009?" href="http://www.allkpop.com/2010/04/how-many-girl-groups-debuted-in-2009" target="_blank">10 KPOP girl groups</a> that debuted in Korea? That is how tough the competition is in Korea! And big stars such as <a title="Lee Hyori" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lee_hyori" target="_blank">Lee Hyori</a> is never complacent because they are never guaranteed the top spot anytime they make a comeback &#8212; they need to fight for it. Anyone who took an Economy subject knows that market competition is a good thing &#8212; and that applies in music, too.</p>
<h1>5. KPOP boy band members look gay (or lesbian)</h1>
<p><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/mo-twister-ukiss-scandal.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-737" title="mo-twister-ukiss-scandal" src="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/mo-twister-ukiss-scandal-273x300.jpg" alt="mo-twister-ukiss-scandal" width="273" height="300" /></a>I have a colleague who&#8217;s a practitioner of MMA (Mixed martial arts) and I wasn&#8217;t surprised that he thinks Super Junior (and other KPOP boy band for that matter) is gay. Ironically, he thinks that LFO and Justin &#8220;Beaver&#8221; is cool.</p>
<p>Anyway, there&#8217;s a recent scandal between the popular Philippine DJ Mo Twister and the KPOP boy band UKISS (Details <a title="Fans want an apology from Filipino DJ for insulting U-Kiss" href="http://www.allkpop.com/2010/04/fans-wants-an-apology-from-filipino-dj-for-insulting-u-kiss" target="_blank">here</a>). Apparently, MO dissed UKISS by twitting &#8220;UKISS looks gay&#8221; or &#8220;UKISS looks like my lesbian aunt&#8221;. Filipino KPOP fans shouldn&#8217;t really be surprised about this, Mohan is known as a &#8220;careless&#8221; DJ with a penile disorder (Wikipedia&#8217;s words not mine)&#8230; the guy&#8217;s surrounded by scandal for saying <a title="Maui Taylor still mad at Mo Twister" href="http://www.pep.ph/articles/12902/Maui-Taylor-still-mad-at-Mo-Twister" target="_blank">stupid</a> <a title="DJ Mo and Rufa Mae resolve their misunderstanding" href="http://www.gmanews.tv/video/34247/-Showbiz-Central--DJ-Mo-and-Rufa-Mae-resolve-their-misunderstanding" target="_blank">things</a>. Also, just a little bit of FYI, Mo is born and raised in the US of A. His perception of what &#8220;manly&#8221; is is being influenced by his American lineage. For Mo Twister and my MMA friend, this is how they define manly:</p>
<div id="attachment_740" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Anatomy_of_a_DoucheBag.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-740" title="Anatomy_of_a_DoucheBag" src="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Anatomy_of_a_DoucheBag-300x225.jpg" alt="&quot;Manly&quot; by Mo Twister" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">&quot;Manly&quot; by Mo Twister</p></div>
<p>What I am saying is, when judging KPOP boy bands, please do not forget that this people are <strong>POP GROUPS</strong> from an East Asian country. For them, being &#8220;manly&#8221; is not defined by biceps and tight shirt nor is it defined by grown men cuddling with cute teddy bears. The issue here is that Koreans (boy or girl) have an insatiable addiction to cute things. This is a &#8220;social&#8221; thing in Korea&#8230; I will let the <a title="Why do Koreans like cute things?" href="http://askakorean.blogspot.com/2010/01/why-do-koreans-like-cute-things.html" target="_blank">Korean</a> do the explaining:</p>
<blockquote><p>Why is this happening? A society’s consumption pattern is a complex  sociological issue, requiring many eggheads and inscrutable doctoral  dissertations in order to uncover the multitudinous layers that create a  sophisticated mosaic comprised of tastes, class identifications and &#8230;</p>
<p>Heck, who is the Korean kidding? The answer is one word:  Japan.</p>
<div style="text-align: left;">Although Korea is a major exporter of  culture at this point (in the form of movies, TV dramas and pop music,)  Korea had no significant pop culture to speak of as recently as 40 years  ago as the country struggled to build their way out of the heap of  rubble. As Korean pop culture grew into form, it was influenced by two  major pop cultures close to Korea &#8212; American and Japanese. It is, then, no surprise that Korea  is infected by Japan&#8217;s love for cute cartoon characters. Let&#8217;s face it  &#8212; people like cute things. There is no population of children in the  world that rejected <em>Pokemon</em>, and that&#8217;s not because of its  compelling story line. It is perhaps the first cartoon whose only appeal  was cuteness overload.</div>
</blockquote>
<p>So, there you have it, blame the Japanese&#8217;s <a title="Cuteness in Japanese culture" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuteness_in_Japanese_culture" target="_self">Kawaii culture</a>!</p>
<p>Okay, let me move on to my next point. We Filipinos are heavily influenced by the Americans. When they bought us from Spain for US$20,000,000.00 in 1898 (Treaty of Paris), they didn&#8217;t just &#8220;use&#8221; the Philippines as a military base, they&#8217;ve also &#8220;educated&#8221; us. In the process of educating the Filipinos, the transference of their social, political, and economic culture was inevitable. As a result, Mckinley&#8217;s dream for the Philippines has been fulfilled. A nation who thinks and speaks like an American <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">but will work for half the price </span>(I Kid, I Kid <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  ).</p>
<p>Anyway, my point is, most Filipino&#8217;s outside the Fandom will think that KPOP boy band members are gay (or lesbian) because they are mentally-conditioned to do so. Growing up, they (or we) were bombarded by movies of Robin Padilla wielding dual handguns in a shiny leather jacket&#8230; for them, that is the definition of being a man and we cannot change or influence that. Being a true KPOP fan, it is our obligation to just ignore their lack of understanding of cultures outside of their own. Let me quote the Korean again for his words of wisdom:</p>
<blockquote>
<div style="text-align: left;">The only reason why American adults are inhibited from embracing their  cuteness-loving nature is the years of Puritanical repression they  suffered as children, only using yellow No. 2 pencil when they secretly  desired colorful mechanical pencils with <em>anime </em>characters printed  on them.</div>
</blockquote>
<p>As a side note, it is my hope that we start to act more like Asians than Americans. Not that there&#8217;s something bad about the American culture&#8230; but maybe we can take what&#8217;s good from the Americans and merge it with our own Asian heritage (Like in Japan where they&#8217;ve successfully merged the old with the new). I may not be THAT proud as a Filipino but I am a proud Asian.</p>
<p>If you liked this article, I suggest that you also <a title="What does it mean to be Jologs? (Or my violent reaction to SNSD’s popularity in the Philippines)" href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/10/27/what-does-it-mean-to-be-jologs-or-my-violent-reaction-to-snsds-popularity-in-the-philippines/" target="_blank">read this</a>. And If you know of any other attacks to KPOP and the fandom, just leave it at the comments and I will try to update the article! <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  KPOP Hwaiting! <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>PS: You do not need my permission to re-post, re-blog, tweet, or link this blog post. I do appreciate a linkback/trackback but it is not necessary. Please propagate this message to all KPOP haters. Let us spread KPOP love! &lt;3</p>
<pre>Thanks to "Jesika Wabbit" noona for proof-reading this post. &lt;3</pre>
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		<title>My journey so far</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ian Uy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last Friday was my 120th day at work. August 7, 2009 was the day that I officially became a permanent part of the workforce. I am now a &#8220;regular&#8221;, full-pledged, software developer.   Society has decided to accept me into the &#8220;real world&#8221;. People from this part of the world will now start to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last Friday was my 120th day at work. August 7, 2009 was the day that I officially became a permanent part of the workforce. I am now a &#8220;regular&#8221;, full-pledged, software developer. <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_lol.gif' alt=':lol:' class='wp-smiley' />  Society has decided to accept me into the &#8220;real world&#8221;. People from this part of the world will now start to refer to me as an &#8220;adult&#8221; despite my bubbly, child-like disposition. <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<div id="attachment_487" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 328px"><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/Day120.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-487" title="Day120" src="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/Day120.jpg" alt="6 Months of Corporate Citizenry" width="318" height="136" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">6 Months of Corporate Citizenry</p></div>
<p>For those who are not acquainted with the Philippine&#8217;s Labor System, let me put you up to speed with the &#8220;regularization&#8221; process. When a new employee enters a company, there is a six-month &#8220;getting-to-know&#8221; period wherein the employer will closely observe the employee&#8217;s job performance and base on that performance, the employer would decide whether to keep the employee as a &#8220;regular&#8221; employee or not (Fired). During that &#8220;getting-to-know&#8221; period, you as an &#8220;irregular/probationary&#8221; employee, are not entitled with some benefits like full medical benefits, perfect attendance bonus, etc.</p>
<p><span id="more-486"></span><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/employees2.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-494" title="employees2" src="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/employees2-300x204.jpg" alt="employees2" width="300" height="204" /></a></p>
<p>Somehow, the people who are responsible for monitoring my job performance thought that the performance I have shown for the last six months is acceptable and have decided to promote me to a regular employee.</p>
<p>During the past six months, I have experienced a lot of new, exciting things. Like learning a new programming language, approaching random girls at some public place and consuming alcoholic beverages. I can&#8217;t say that all of them are geeky experiences, but hey, its part of being human.</p>
<p>Listed below are things that I have experienced during the past six months (this is not a complete list of what transpired for the last six months):</p>
<ul>
<li>Worked on four separate projects</li>
<li>Started a <a title="this" href="http://blog.ianuy.com" target="_blank">blog</a> about software development</li>
<li>Learned COM</li>
<li>Worked on a <a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/04/12/localization-a-programmers-dirty-job/">Localization</a> project</li>
<li><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/05/10/migration-why-developers-hate-microsoft-or-my-first-encounter-how-microsoft-can-break-your-software/" target="_blank">Migrated a product to work on Vista</a></li>
<li>Drank <a title="Zombie Cocktail" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zombie_cocktail" target="_blank">Zombie</a></li>
<li>Asked the digits of a totally random chick</li>
<li><a title="Coding Horror 01: Readability vs Efficiency " href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/04/26/coding-horror-01-readability-vs-efficiency/">Worked with bit patterns</a></li>
<li>Discovered that Javascript doesn&#8217;t support internationalization (Russian dates)</li>
<li>Learned Impersonation (and the basics of Windows Security)</li>
<li>Consumed <a title="Alcopop" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alcopops" target="_blank">Alcopops</a></li>
<li>Written a blog post about <a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/05/24/on-filipino-nationalism-or-my-pathetic-explanation-on-why-filipinos-are-not-nationalistic/" target="_blank">nationalism</a> and got flamed</li>
<li>Attended a Leadership Conference</li>
<li>Received an award for delivering a product on time</li>
<li><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/07/19/the-first-ever-shoe-i-bought-on-my-own-with-my-own-money/" target="_blank">Bought a shoe with my own money</a></li>
<li><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/06/28/datetime-parse-on-localized-systems/" target="_blank">Hated DateTime parsing on .NET</a></li>
<li>Partially learned AJAX and JSON</li>
<li>Maintained and supported three products</li>
<li><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/06/07/the-importance-of-a-dedicated-build-machine/" target="_blank">Created and documented a new build process</a></li>
<li>Discovered SNSD</li>
<li>Dined at really expensive restaurants</li>
<li>Wore a suit</li>
<li><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/05/17/aspnet-1x-to-aspnet-20-migration-postback-problem/" target="_blank">Felt the pain of migrating .NET 1.1 to .NET 2.0</a></li>
<li>Debugged a 25 line SELECT statement (with 5 joins)</li>
<li><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/04/26/coding-horror-01-readability-vs-efficiency/">Coding Horror</a></li>
<li>Got really pissed with an officemate</li>
<li><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/04/12/leadership-why-i-love-going-to-work/">Admired the technical knowledge of my superiors</a></li>
<li>Treated the entire team to a Pizza</li>
<li>Jogged 2 kilometers at a real outdoor red urethane track</li>
<li>Talked to a Microsoft representative</li>
<li>Coordinated with testers to resolve an issue with our product</li>
<li><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/04/12/1-software-developer-2-jeepney-drivers/" target="_blank">Paid Taxes</a></li>
<li>Joined a <a title="SONES" href="http://soshified.com" target="_blank">fan club</a></li>
<li>Had a Flu Shot</li>
<li>Discovered that my bone density is uber low</li>
<li>Wore eyeglasses</li>
<li>Was astonished at how big corporations work (Changing a splash screen image needed the approval of a bunch of people)</li>
<li><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/06/21/work-is-now-officially-work/">Appreciated my work environment</a></li>
<li>Learned Windows Communication Framework</li>
<li>Worked with SVG graphs (and discovered that Visual Studio 2005 and Adobe SVG Viewer hates each other)</li>
<li>Had someone tell me that I lack professionalism</li>
<li>Broke a daily build</li>
<li>Really understood what text encoding is all about</li>
<li>Discovered that the real world is full of mediocrity</li>
<li>Experienced integration hell</li>
<li>Surprised that most software developers doesn&#8217;t follow best practices for Localization support</li>
<li>Studied MFC</li>
<li>Understood the meaning of Teamwork</li>
</ul>
<p>Most of these experiences are not possible without the help and encouragement of my teammates (especially the Zombie one!). So I would like to thank my team (you know who you guys are) for being such great geek buddies and for actually teaching me a few stuff about life. We may not agree on some topics (SNSD vs Wondergirls, Gravity, Time Management, Filipino Culture, etc), but I am damn sure that we had a lot of fun debating. <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_lol.gif' alt=':lol:' class='wp-smiley' />  Seriously, thanks!</p>
<p>Looking forward to a great year (and career) ahead!</p>



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		<title>The first ever shoe I bought. On my own. With my own money.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 14:08:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Uy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It was just like yesterday when my Dad took me to a nearby mall to buy me my first pair of school shoes. I can still vividly remember that shoe &#8211; it was black, made of leather, and had those noisy &#8220;strap-ons&#8221;.
I never chose that shoe. I hated it. It was common and boring. Everyone [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_479" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/FirstShoes.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-479" title="FirstShoes" src="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/FirstShoes-300x225.jpg" alt="Adidas Ozweego 365" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Adidas Ozweego 365</p></div>
<p>It was just like yesterday when my Dad took me to a nearby mall to buy me my first pair of school shoes. I can still vividly remember that shoe &#8211; it was black, made of leather, and had those noisy &#8220;strap-ons&#8221;.</p>
<div id="attachment_481" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/65030_big.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-481" title="First.School.Shoe" src="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/65030_big-300x210.jpg" alt="'twas black, made of leather and had those noisy strap-ons." width="300" height="210" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">&#39;twas black, made of leather and had those noisy &quot;strap-ons&quot;.</p></div>
<p>I never chose that shoe. I hated it. It was common and boring. Everyone in school wore the same shoe except for the cool kids. The cool kids had those shoe that will light/blink whenever you take a step. I want that shoe and I remember crying and whining all the way home when my Dad forced me to &#8220;choose&#8221; the leather one. I&#8217;ve always hated leather shoes.</p>
<div id="attachment_482" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/CoolKidShoes.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-482" title="CoolKidShoes" src="http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/CoolKidShoes-300x210.jpg" alt="Cool Kid's Shoes -- IT BLINKS!" width="300" height="210" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Cool Kid&#39;s Shoes -- IT BLINKS!</p></div>
<p>Time flies. I&#8217;m already 20-ish, and today is the first time that I bought my own pair of <a title="THE SHOE!" href="http://www.adidas.com/campaigns/running_fw09/content/products-detail.aspx?article_id=404387" target="_blank">shoes</a>! Without my dad telling me what to like, choose or buy. I also paid it on my own. <strong>Oh, the price of independence. <img src='http://blog.ianuy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_lol.gif' alt=':lol:' class='wp-smiley' /> </strong></p>



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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2009 12:21:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Uy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever attended one of those Transformational Learning programs? The ones that will make you reflect deep and hard about your life to the point that it will change how you see the world? I have.

After sending me to a comprehensive 3-day technical training for Windows Communication Framework, my company have decided to send [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: small;">Have you ever attended one of those <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transformational_learning">Transformational Learning</a> programs? The ones that will make you reflect deep and hard about your life to the point that it will change how you see the world? <span style="font-weight: bold;">I have.</span></span><br />
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</span><span class="insertedphoto"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 0pt none;" src="http://images.ianuy.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/Sc@ILgoKCDIAAAHfQb41/The-7-Habits-of-Highly-Effective-People-Signature-Series-Set-Stephen-Covey-compact-disc.jpg?et=elInsWfCe3e1rlFhzmE5LA&amp;nmid=0" border="0" alt="" width="237" height="300" /></span><span style="font-size: small;">After sending me to a comprehensive 3-day technical trai</span><span style="font-size: small;">ning for <a href="http://ianuy.multiply.com/journal/item/88/Coding_Enlightment_Transactions_in_C">W</a></span><a href="http://ianuy.multiply.com/journal/item/88/Coding_Enlightment_Transactions_in_C"></a><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://ianuy.multiply.com/journal/item/88/Coding_Enlightment_Transactions_in_C">indows Communication Framework</a>, my company have decided to send me to a 3</span><span style="font-size: small;">-day non-technical training called <span style="font-weight: bold;">7 Habits for Highly Effective People Signature Program</span> at the <span style="font-style: italic;">Ateneo Professional Schools, Center for Leadership and Change</span> in Makati.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">At first, I thought that it will be a big waste of m</span><a href="http://ianuy.multiply.com/item/88/Coding_Enlightment_Transactions_in_C"></a><span style="font-size: small;">y and m</span><span style="font-size: small;">y company&#8217;s time if I attend this training during this hectic months. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Ha</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">bits? </span>C&#8217;mon! I don&#8217;t need those to spew out quality codes! Besides, I already have habits even if they are not the best ones around. That&#8217;s what I thought and before I knew it&#8230;</span></p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: large;">I was in for the bigge</span></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: large;">st shock of my life!</span></span></div>
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<p><span style="font-size: small;">Day 1, and as usual, I wa</span><span style="font-size: small;">s la</span><span style="font-size: small;">te. Not <span style="font-style: italic;">t</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: italic;">hat </span>late, but when I got to the </span><span style="font-size: small;">conference/meeting room, most of the participants, including the facilitator, was already there. The setting is what you would expect in a <span style="font-weight: bold;">very ex</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">pensive</span> (18-21K PHP) program: Brewed Coffee,</span><span style="font-size: small;"> Expensive Cookies, </span><span style="font-size: small;">Cold Conference Room, Buffet Breakfast (Catered), People in Business Attire and their English Accent. The air was filled with high falut</span><span style="font-size: small;">ing business terms coming from the hot exchange of business talks from the business ex</span><span style="font-size: small;">ecs that joined the program. There were only 10 a</span><span style="font-size: small;">t</span><span style="font-size: small;">tendees: 4 Software Developers from our company and 6 H.R. Executives / Manage</span><span style="font-size: small;">rs from Kraft, Aboitiz and Unilab. If you&#8217;re wondering what 4 lowly software developers are doing in this program, don&#8217;t bother to ask me &#8211; we are on the same boat.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">During the start of the program, th</span><span style="font-size: small;">e facilitator asked each of the attendees on what they hope to g</span><span style="font-size: small;">et out of the 3-day program. The 6 H.R. People attended the program because they want to roll-out the same program in their own company. As for the rest of us, we gave our own expectation of the program. My d</span><span style="font-size: small;">emands were actually simple&#8230;</span></p>
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<li><span style="font-size: small;">Work-Life Balance</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;">Influence how our company produce software (Software done </span><span style="font-size: small;">right)</span></li>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: small;">My teammates have long insisted that I should try to have more fun with my life &#8212; the type of &#8220;fun&#8221; that d</span><span style="font-size: small;">oes NOT involve c</span><span style="font-size: small;">omputers, they say. I have long debated this with them and eventually I saw their point and was convinced to the point that I sorta want to experience th</span><span style="font-size: small;">e other side of life and see for myself what all</span><span style="font-size: small;"> the fuzz is about. On the other hand, At work, I would like to be</span><span style="font-size: small;"> able to </span><span style="font-size: small;">&#8220;influence&#8221; how our company produce software. By that, I mean that I would like to have the ability to influence how our organization writes code. I would like to have the powe</span><span style="font-size: small;">r to free all software developers who are suffering from bad software development practices. Haha.</span><span class="insertedphoto"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 0pt none; width: 143px; height: 204px;" src="http://images.ianuy.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/Sdhq6QoKCDIAACWciCI1/values-education-toolkit-poster-2.jpg?et=XCoEXevaSdAtvQ27sKOpBA&amp;nmid=0" border="0" alt="" width="200" height="284" /></span></p>
<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: small;">From the moment I entered the conference</span><span style="font-size: small;"> room, I </span><span style="font-size: small;">hav</span><span style="font-size: small;">e</span><span style="font-size: small;"> the least intent to participate in the program. I </span><span style="font-size: small;">really ne</span><span style="font-size: small;">ver believed that t</span><span style="font-size: small;">his kind of programs have the power to chang</span><span style="font-size: small;">e your life or at the very least, influence your beliefs. My first thou</span><span style="font-size: small;">ghts when I heard of this program is th</span><span style="font-size: small;">at its like my <span style="font-weight: bold;">GMRC</span> (Good Manners and Right Conduct) clas</span><span style="font-size: small;">s in</span><span style="font-size: small;"> Elementary, like my </span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Va</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">lues Education </span></span><span style="font-size: small;">class in High School a</span><span style="font-size: small;">nd its like my <span style="font-weight: bold;">Social S</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">tudies</span> class in College. In short, the very first thought that came to my mind is that the program will be BORING an</span><span style="font-size: small;">d I would just sleep through it. Together with my close-mindedne</span><span style="font-size: small;">ss, this program will never stand a chance to even influence my weakest beliefs. That&#8217;s what I thought.</span></div>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">The program started in a form of a video with the aut</span><span style="font-size: small;">hor (Stephen Covey) </span><span style="font-size: small;">explaining how the 7 Habits Program started. According to him, it all started when he studied different</span><span style="font-size: small;"> written literatures about <span style="font-weight: bold;">success and successful people</span> for his PH.D. thesis. The said literatures that he read spans 250 year</span><span style="font-size: small;">s and he </span><span style="font-size: small;">was shocked by the result of his study </span><span style="font-size: small;">&#8211; the shift from <span style="font-weight: bold;">Personal Ethics</span> to </span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Character Ethics</span>. It means that people&#8217;s understanding of success shifted from &#8220;personal, more fulfilling and real success&#8221; to &#8220;public (our charact</span><span style="font-size: small;">er), l</span><span style="font-size: small;">ess fulfilling and perceived success&#8221;. In less jargonic talk, this means that we measure success </span><span style="font-size: small;">by the &#8220;<span style="font-weight: bold;">perception of other people of how successful I am</span>&#8221; and not by <span style="font-weight: bold;">&#8220;how successful I feel&#8221;</span>.</span></p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">The result of this is that our generation does things that will make us successful in the eye of other people as opposed to doing things that will make us truly happy.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span class="insertedphoto"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 0pt none; width: 235px; height: 208px;" src="http://images.ianuy.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/Sdh5bwoKCDIAACo-EB41/defining-it-project-success.jpg?et=Ehpq3dET7JGPshn4QhsvAg&amp;nmid=0" border="0" alt="" width="300" height="266" /></span></p>
<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: small;">From that point on, I was turned into a believer. I can totally relat</span><span style="font-size: small;">e to what this guy was saying. For the l</span><span style="font-size: small;">ongest time, I believe that succ</span><span style="font-size: small;">e</span><span style="font-size: small;">ss is defined by how people measure you, not by how you measure your</span><span style="font-size: small;">self. Some people may say t</span><span style="font-size: small;">hat I am very successful because I graduated Cum Laude in a prestigious college and is now working on a Gl</span><span style="font-size: small;">obal 500 </span><span style="font-size: small;">company. But do I feel this success? Frankly, not that much. My <span style="font-weight: bold;">own</span> definition of success is measured by &#8220;the number of people I in</span><span style="font-size: small;">fluenced thru my work (programs)&#8221;&#8230; to c</span><span style="font-size: small;">hange</span><span style="font-size: small;"> the world. I could have done this by joining major open source </span><span style="font-size: small;">development groups but that would interfere with my studies and </span><span style="font-size: small;">ev</span><span style="font-size: small;">entually my &#8220;public success&#8221;. I remember a coffee table conversation with my</span><span style="font-size: small;"> teammates wherein they said that I am a &#8220;people pleaser&#8221; and they were right, I love meeting and exceeding expectations and I h</span><span style="font-size: small;">ate disappointing people. Maybe this is part of my &#8220;Character Ethics&#8221;.</span></div>
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<p><span style="font-size: small;">After the introduction, the maturity continuum was introd</span><span style="font-size: small;">uce</span><span style="font-size: small;">d to us. It illustrates the 7 habits and its effects and after that, each of the habits were discussed.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span class="insertedphoto"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 0pt none;" src="http://images.ianuy.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SdhtSAoKCDIAAH7WxqA1/clip-image004.jpg?et=iFPXANUrrPoVHtcLHIHfCA&amp;nmid=0" border="0" alt="" width="290" height="300" /></span><a href="http://ianuy.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SdhtSAoKCDIAAH7WxqA1"></a><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Habit 1 is all about being Proactive. Its the foundation of the 7 Habits. You can never be independent without being dependent, and you can never be interdependent without being independent. While discussing Habit 1, I had some realization on why <a title="Deadlines: I used to love them" href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/04/12/deadlines-i-used-to-love-them/" target="_blank">I suddenly hate deadlines</a> now while I used to love it </span></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">back in college. I hate it because I used to be very independent back then and now I&#8217;m back to being dependent. I have alre</span></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">ady achieved the 2nd level of Maturity (Independence) but now, I&#8217;m back to being hand-fed (dependence). </span></span><a href="http://ianuy.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SdhtSAoKCDIAAH7WxqA1"></a><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">Good news is, the Maturity Continuum is <span style="font-style: italic;">multi-dimensional</span>. This means that for every new role you undertake, your maturity level will be back to 0.</span></span><br />
<span class="insertedphoto"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 0pt none; width: 186px; height: 186px;" src="http://images.ianuy.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SdiFyQoKCDIAAGOCPzc1/circles-concern-influence.gif?et=fuw3Nvvcksq6SaqOWl30%2Bg&amp;nmid=0" border="0" alt="" width="250" height="250" /></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">Another important thing that I learned in Habit 1 is the Circle of Influence and the Circle of Concern. Habit 1 taught me on how I can influence how our company produce software (My 2nd Expectation). In one of my projects, I was asked to design a new Licensing feature for our product using a pre-existing library. While studying this library, I happened to point-out that we are doing some <span style="font-weight: bold;">unsafe</span> practices that can eventually lead to a licensing breach. By pointing that out, I was partly able to influence the project lead to create a <span style="font-weight: bold;">new and safer</span> library. And little by little, I was able to expand my Circle of Influence and somehow shrink my Circle of Concern.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">Habit 2 preaches to always &#8220;begin with the end in mind&#8221;. In Habit 2, we were asked to write a personal mission statement. Funny thing about this exercise is that we were also asked to write a personal mission statement back in High School. Almost 10 years ago and I can still clearly remember m</span></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">y personal mission in life&#8230; <span style="font-weight: bold;">CHANGE THE WORLD</span>. And it still is (Yes, I know its not <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SMART_%28project_management%29">SMART</a>). While writing my personal mission statement, it made me think and reflect&#8230; Have I </span></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">always kept the end in my mind? In school? At work? And it made me remember my very first &#8220;usable&#8221; project in College called <span style="font-weight: bold;">MAD-Files </span>(Massive Distributor of Files).</span></span><br />
<a href="http://ianuy.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/Sdh1nAoKCDIAACQ8w2Q1"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 0pt none;" src="http://images.ianuy.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/Sdh1nAoKCDIAACQ8w2Q1/MADFiles.JPG?et=yhfvb%2CZf56fzgJRM2MeRkA&amp;nmid=0" border="0" alt="" width="300" height="174" /></a><span style="font-size: small;">MAD-Files was designed to aid Mapua Professors who are teaching laboratory (computer lab) subjects to distribute <span style="font-style: italic;">digital<span style="font-weight: bold;"> </span></span>course materials to the students workstations. Before MAD-Files, the professors have to manually <span style="font-weight: bold;">copy-paste</span> each course materials to each and every &#8220;network&#8221; drive of the students. This will usually take about 30 minutes (not to mention that this process is erroneous and stressful).</span></p>
<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: small;">It begs the question, by making this application, was I able to change the world? If you ask <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sergey_Brin">Sergey</a> or <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Linus_Torvalds">Linus</a>, maybe not. But in my </span><span style="font-size: small;">own little</span><span style="font-size: small;"> way, I <span style="font-style: italic;">m</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: italic;">ay</span> have changed the world. How? Just think of it this way, by automating the way professors do this task, they managed to cut the wasted time from 30 minutes to about 30 seconds. And in a program where you will only meet once a week for 4.5 hours and 10 times for the entire program, 30 minutes is a big deal (It&#8217;s 11.11% of the </span><span style="font-size: small;">t</span><span style="font-size: small;">otal course time). And by saving that 30 minutes, the professors were able to teach additional skills to the students&#8230; Skills that will help them outside college. Skills that will help them influence </span><span style="font-size: small;">other people. And in that way, I was able to change the world. All of my projects are built on this premise&#8230; <span style="font-weight: bold;">Tools to help people do their job easier and faster.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://ianuy.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/Sdh5-QoKCDIAADS1UKg1"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 0pt none; width: 223px; height: 237px;" src="http://images.ianuy.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/Sdh5-QoKCDIAADS1UKg1/webchangetheworld.jpg?et=a8lFHTFGSm5aJKfgKskKJQ&amp;nmid=0" border="0" alt="" width="281" height="300" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: small;">Habit 3 is all about &#8220;Putting First Things First&#8221;. It&#8217;s all about putting important things first. In Habit 2, we were asked about our personal mission and goals in life. Habit 3 teaches you to act on the important things in your life so you can attain your personal goals. Right now, my only role is being a &#8220;Software Developer&#8221; in my company. How does coming to work everyday make me achieve my personal mission wh</span><span style="font-size: small;">ich is to <span style="font-weight: bold;">change the world?</span> Simple. As I <a title="Leadership: Why I Love Going to Work" href="http://blog.ianuy.com/2009/04/12/leadership-why-i-love-going-to-work/" target="_blank">previously mentioned</a>, I work in a global 500 company that does <span style="font-weight: bold;">Process Automation</span>. A simple explanation of what our product does is given by our Director and it goes something like this:</span></p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;Imagine Shell&#8217;s oil processing plant in the middle of the ocean somewhere. This plant harvests raw fossil fuel from the ground to deliver million of barrels of oil everyday. Now, between the raw fossil fuel (raw product)  and the barrel of oils sold in the market (end product) is a </span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">set </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">of processes</span><span style="font-style: italic;">. This processes is controlled by software and that software is what we create here.&#8221;</span></span></div>
<p><a href="http://ianuy.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SdiHfAoKCDIAABmHH2o1"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 0pt none; width: 253px; height: 253px;" src="http://images.ianuy.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SdiHfAoKCDIAABmHH2o1/latepass-1929494629.jpg?et=1huG5qIa0fNl9JlaKjfsDA&amp;nmid=0" border="0" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span>By creating high-quality software, I will be able to help our clients to deliver products faster, easier and safer. The result of this is cheaper products of higher quality to the consumers. In essence, our products indirectly influences the quality of life of the people around the world. Our <span style="font-weight: bold;">Pride of Workmanship</span> is&#8230;</span></p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-size: large;">&#8220;Creating Softwares that Powers the World&#8221;</span></p>
<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: small;">Another thing that Habit 3 taught me is that if I really want to attain Work-Life Balance, I need to get a new role. As of now, my only role is a Software Developer (that&#8217;s the Work part). To get the Life part, maybe </span><span style="font-size: small;">I need to get a girlfriend, perhaps? Hanging question, thanks for reading. Hahahaha!</p>
<p>Habit 4, Think Win-Win, is the most striking habit for me. For the longest time, I have never believed in a Win-Win scenario. It&#8217;s always Win-Loose for me. If you Win, I&#8217;ll loose so I must always Win and I don&#8217;t care if you loose. (They call this Scarcity Mentality).</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been brought-up to be very competitive. I can still remember back in my Elementary days, when I will tell my mom that I got a high score on a certain subject, she would always reply &#8220;How did</p>
<p></span><span style="font-size: small;">Person A did?&#8221;. She would always compare me to other people who always did well in class. And through the years, it shaped me to be very competitive. It gave me the mentality that I should always come up on top when being compared to others. Win-Win is never a scenario for me. </span><a href="http://ianuy.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SdiRmgoKCDIAADDrVmA1"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 0pt none; width: 242px; height: 291px;" src="http://images.ianuy.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SdiRmgoKCDIAADDrVmA1/teamwork.jpg?et=PwJ7mPFgCylvyyFONxnVMQ&amp;nmid=0" border="0" alt="" width="250" height="300" /></a></div>
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: small;">Habit 4 made me reflect deep and hard about how I treat people back in</span><span style="font-size: small;"> </span><span style="font-size: small;">College. If you observe the Maturity Continuum above, Habit 4 is the foundational habit to achieve <span style="font-weight: bold;">Public Victory</span>&#8230; the type of victory leaders want to attain. In college, I have already achieved my own Private Victory&#8230; I am so independent that I don&#8217;t need anyone to accomplish anything. And <a href="http://ianuy.multiply.com/journal/item/90/Leadership_Why_I_Love_Going_to_Work">I&#8217;ve always wondere</a></span><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://ianuy.multiply.com/journal/item/90/Leadership_Why_I_Love_Going_to_Work">d</a> why I suck at being a leader and now I know&#8230; It&#8217;s because I am not capable of thinking Win-Win! It&#8217;s all about me, winning. It&#8217;s my OWN victory. And I apologize for not being able to trust people other than myself.</span></div>
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Habit 4 is the foundational habit for being <span style="font-weight: bold;">INTERdependent</span>. Being independent and at the same time being dependent to each other. By conquering Habit 4, people will be able to <span style="font-weight: bold;">synergize</span> to produce the best possible result (The whole is greater that the sum of its parts). I suck at being a leader because I cannot trust other people to do their job and that&#8217;s why I can&#8217;t delegate. Being interdependent is a relationship built on trust and without that, Public Victory can never be achieved.<br />
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I was not able to fully grasps Habits 5, 6 and 7 because <span style="font-weight: bold;">I&#8217;m currently stuck at Habit 4. </span>At the moment, I am trying to apply Habit 4 in my everyday life. Hopefully, I will get pass this habit and attain public victory.</span></p>
<p>The 7 Habits signature program will <span style="font-weight: bold;">not make me a saint</span>. It is not a quick-fix program that will instantly make me an effective person, more so an effective leader. However&#8230;</p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">&#8230; the program made me reflect about my core beliefs and made me realize that some of them is destructive to my growth and to the people around me. And by giving me that in-your-face realization, It will hopefully help me to trust other people and eventually lead me to the path of Public Victory!</span></span></div>
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